anonymously, about a girl, 1 year old
Letters from a gnome are, of course, an interesting idea, he becomes a kind of friend for the child. But then how to explain to the child what happened to the gnome, why not write or will there be a continuation? And until what age should children believe in Gnome Gosha? After all, for them it will be practically real: letters, gifts ...? Editorial commentary Question to the article about learning to read in a playful way with the help of letters from the gnome Gosha.
Hello.
This question torments many parents, because all young children believe in the tooth fairy, Santa Claus and other invented characters. After all, everyone wants to believe in a fairy tale and miracles - it's so nice! Over time, children grow up and forget about them, stop believing in magic and miracles - they just become adults. And after all, we ourselves sometimes support this illusion in order not to deprive the child of happiness. What to do in such situations?
Firstly, you can continue to be friends with this gnome and with his help convey very necessary and useful information to the child, learn about his affairs, because he can tell the gnome more than you. Psychologists sometimes advise doing this with the help of your favorite toys and characters, and in return let him receive his little gifts - coins, stickers, toys.
Secondly, if you nevertheless decide to complete the game with the gnome, come up with a fairy tale in which the gnome Gosha comes to the aid of the children and teaches them to read, and when they have already learned to read, he leaves the last gift with a letter and says goodbye. after all, he has many children in the world who need to be taught to read.
And if the child suddenly noticed how you yourself put gifts under the pillow, tell them that you really enjoyed playing the game with him, being a dwarf and giving gifts.
In any case, if your kid likes this game, continue, and over time, when he grows up, he himself will forget about it. All the best!
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