7 harmful tips for raising a girl

It's time to find out some bad advice about raising girls, which you definitely can't follow. These are common mistakes. Read the wrong recommendations - and in no case follow them. Then your daughter will grow up happy, become a successful woman in the future, and will be able to fulfill herself. In this article, we will talk about how do not raise a girl if you wish her happiness.

1. Appearance and outfits are the main advantage

The most important rule is to always look perfect. You need to constantly convince your daughter that it is in her beauty and good clothes that the main strength lies. It all depends on female charm and charm, delicate taste! Let the daughter constantly show everyone how beautiful she is, how cute she knows how to smile. Right from preschool age, teach her to show everyone, always and everywhere, what a beautiful dress she has (preferably new), what blouse, what hairstyle and what she herself is - all wonderful and beautiful.

It is not at all so important that your daughter did not cope with her homework and did not learn the poem for the lesson. The main thing is that her dress is the most beautiful and all eyes are riveted to her outfit! True, it is worth remembering one more secret: a girl should take care of her appearance constantly, think about it literally every second. If her pigtail is tousled or there are spots on her dress, you will have to scold her well. You need to look perfect. Is always.

2. The power of a woman in her tears

Inspire your daughter that her tears are the main strength. Let her know: emotionally and psychologically suppressing a man with tantrums, scandals is simple and easy! It's so nice to achieve everything you want with endless tantrums. Teach your daughter to cry a little, make trouble and throw tantrums. Your daughter is so tender, vulnerable and sensitive. She reacts to everything - the weather, an unflattering comment, a cheap gift. And let the future spouse of your daughter gradually turn into an exhausted and neurasthenic henpecked. But he will walk along the line, fearing another drama due to a cheap gift or a bucket of trash that he forgot to take out! And there is no need to explain to the girl that it is important to be able to listen to another person, find a compromise and understand the situation. After all, any problem can be solved instantly if you turn on your acting skills and “turn up the sound”. Tears and scandals are all that a woman needs to be able to achieve in order to achieve what she wants. Let your daughter know this. It will come in handy.

3. Your daughter is only worthy of a perfect man

It is obvious that some special spouse is prepared for your daughter, possessing absolutely all the virtues, and for this you need to teach her to notice the flaws in those boys, young men and men that she will meet in life. Start right from the preschool age. Just tell your daughter that this boy is not handsome, this one is stupid, this one has some wrong toys, this one is shaggy.

In adulthood, such skills will definitely come in handy for your daughter, she will be able to see flaws in everyone. After all, one cannot seriously pay attention to men with a modest salary, who do not have deep knowledge of art (Monet from Manet, but Roerich cannot be distinguished from Zurich), who are not ready to take their wife abroad every year, or pay attention to a man who eats ugly , and this one has ordinary teachers at school ... Everything is important here. After all, you only need the ideal!

4. The main goal is to get married successfully

Inspire your daughter that besides marriage and the birth of children, she cannot have any interests and goals in life. Absolutely everything should obey only one desire: to get married as quickly and successfully as possible! Of course, your own interests, preferences, self-realization will have to be sacrificed.

Education, work, career - all this is not for your daughter and it is not worth spending too much time and energy on studying, and even more so on a career. After all, only failing women who could not successfully marry and whom their husbands are unable to support are forced to earn a living. It is clear that your daughter is not like that.

5. Everything should be done only for the family - nothing for yourself

When the daughter met the ideal man, got married successfully, gave birth to a child, the time comes to implement the next plan - everything for the family! Inspire in your daughter the idea that the most important in the family is the man, and then the children, and then (if the strength remains) it is herself.

Buying yourself new clothes, a chocolate bar or a book is a waste. Better something for a husband, for children, at worst - just in the house.

6. Daughter should be ideal

To achieve this, you will have to constantly draw your daughter's attention to her mistakes, any shortcomings, even insignificant ones. Everything must be perfect! Who, besides you, the closest and dearest person, will point out to her all her shortcomings and the fact that she does everything wrong - she does not cook like that, she doesn’t clean, not so dressed, not so made up, not living like that.

These strangers will flatter and praise her for all sorts of different invented reasons, and you should tell her only the truth, because this is the truth she expects from you. And be sure to tell her that with such mistakes as she makes, with such a character and figure, no one will ever marry her.

7. No secrets and secrets from the mother

What is personal space? This is only for those who do not have warm and close relationships in the family! And you are dear people and are not indifferent to each other. Therefore: no secrets, no privacy, everything is open, everything is in plain sight. Read personal diaries, correspondence in social networks and your phone. You can, if you really need to, even follow your daughter to make sure that she is not hiding anything from you.