When a newborn baby appears in the family, the personal life of a man and a woman, of course, does not end, but the nature of intimate relationships changes. Quite often not for the better. The embarrassing situations described below are evidence of this.
- In the morning, you agreed with your husband that the upcoming evening is exclusively for the two of you, because you less often than before the birth of the baby began to pay attention to each other in bed. The beautiful lingerie is ready, you are waiting. However, the baby does not want to fall asleep in any way. Finally, you put him to bed, lay down for a minute next to the baby ... The husband is waiting, and you are already sound asleep. In a negligee, with makeup. Well ...
- In the midst of caresses, either you or your husband touch a crumbs toy in the dark. Nothing wrong! If only the toy wasn't talking. Now we have to continue to the song from the cartoon.
- Everything is going great, you enjoy each other, but children are children: the baby wakes up, cries and demands attention to himself. Well, what can you do here? Smile, in 20 years you will be able to "take revenge" on him by returning from the dacha early.
- Your husband missed you, he finally holds you in his arms, kissing you tenderly, but why are your thoughts so far away? You forgot to buy diapers and now you are not sure whether they will be enough for tomorrow, whether you will have to run to the store, because there will be no one to leave the child with. Switch now from a child to a husband! Your mom raised you without diapers!
- You have just started a wonderful prelude to love, but why is somehow uncomfortable. Milk drips out of my chest inappropriate. Breastfeeding is great, but at the moment it's not a feeding process at all ...
- You are very afraid of getting pregnant, because too little time has passed since the birth of the baby. That is why we are ready to use all possible contraceptives at once. However, one is enough - a maximum of two. Check with your gynecologist.
- You do your best not to tell your husband: “And now our daddy has come! We were waiting for our sweet daddy! ”
- Have you always thought: "The longer, the better, of course!" And now suddenly the opinion has changed. It’s just a pity to waste time now that can be used for sleep.
- You perfectly understand that only hormones are to blame, but you cannot cope with yourself. Sexual intercourse with her husband brings up a joke that came to mind at the wrong time: “Again, these ridiculous gestures?”
- For some reason, it hurts so much, as if it happens to you for the first time. You frantically remember that you read on the Internet about additional lubrication for comfortable sexual intercourse after childbirth. Maybe buy several packages at once, so that it will definitely be enough?
Family psychology: problems in sex after childbirth
