How can a young mother do everything? How not to get bogged down in a routine and not turn into a boring housewife? Is it possible to engage in self-realization and not deprive children of the attention? How to plan a vacation with your family, and why is it so important to go on a date with your husband at least once a week? Find out by reading the tips of a mom of four.
The life of a young mother often becomes monotonous and concentrates only around the child. However, even with a baby in your arms, you can continue to lead a rich life. How can a young mother do everything? How not to get bogged down in a routine and not turn into a boring housewife? Is it possible to engage in self-realization and not deprive children of the attention? How to plan a vacation with your family, and why is it so important to go on a date with your husband at least once a week? Find out by reading the tips of a mom with many children.
Find a hobby that will take you away from your routine
Try to find something interesting for yourself. You can blog about children, learn something that you didn't have time for before - draw, sew, knit, bake beautiful cakes. All this sometimes even develops into a source of additional income.
Don't forget about your husband
Try to date your husband at least once a week. Ask grandparents to sit with their beloved grandchildren, while you yourself go to the cinema, to a restaurant, to a concert, or just take a walk. Spending time alone without children can help keep the relationship sparked.
Set a daily routine for children
Make sure that the baby observes the regime and does not sit in front of a computer or TV in the evenings, but goes to bed on time - for example, at 21.00. Then in the morning he will easily wake up and get ready for a kindergarten or school without whims. You, having sent the child to bed, will be able to devote the evening to yourself and your husband.
Spend the weekend with your family
Do all your household chores during the week: cleaning, laundry, and other household chores, do not postpone over the weekend. In this case, on Saturday and Sunday you can relax with the whole family - take a walk in the park, watch an interesting movie, go somewhere. A weekend full of interesting events will energize your family for a whole week.
Don't do what you don't like
If you do not like ironing, it is absolutely not necessary to iron all things thoroughly, they will not become worse from this. There is no need to bring crystal cleanliness to the house either. If the children helped you clean the floor, but they did not do it very well, you do not need to redo all the work behind them. The ideal order of the house is not important for the child; the main thing for him is that the mother is kind and in a good mood. So, having carved out a free minute, it is better to just rest.
